The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark
What you’ll discover
Pleasure, Not Performance — How to break free from shame, move beyond the pressure to “perform” intimacy, and let pleasure lead to safety and connection
Reversing the Drift — Why most couples grow apart and how intention and ritual can gently bring them back together
The Power of Play — How to meet emotional and physical resistance with curiosity instead of frustration
The Solo Sure — How to begin your pleasure practice if you’re single or if your partner isn’t ready—both of you will benefit
The Sure Thing Framework — A step-by-step guide to creating a personalized pleasure practice that fits into a real-life schedule
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A bit of my story
Years ago, I felt frustrated and stuck, worried our 20‑year monogamous marriage had run out of spark. I tried gimmicks, expert advice, fantasy. Nothing worked. Then I invented the Sure Thing… and committed to it weekly. This practice changed our lives and can change yours too.
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Sound familiar?
- You keep “waiting to be in the mood” and days turn into months.
- Your relationship feels stuck—more roommates than lovers.
- You try tips and “spice it up” hacks, but nothing sticks.
- You’re busy and tired; intimacy slides to the bottom of the list.
- You feel flat, disconnected from your body, and start doubting yourself.
- Shame and awkwardness make every conversation harder.
- You’re exhausted by methods that feel performative.
- Anxiety whispers that maybe you’re broken.
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